Susanne Rhoads Stelzner, a cherished resident of Lake Forest and Lake Bluff, Illinois, passed away on February 4, 2026, after a prolonged battle with breast cancer. She was 66 years old. Known for her warmth, compassion, and keen eye for design, Susanne left an indelible mark on those who knew her.
Born in Montclair, New Jersey, Susanne moved to Lake Forest in 1960 with her family. She graduated from Lake Forest High School in 1977 and later earned a degree in sociology from Hillsdale College in Michigan in 1981. Her professional journey began in marketing at Jim Beam, but her passion for interior design led her to work with Showhomes in San Diego, California.
Throughout her life, Susanne maintained a deep connection to the water, finding solace and joy at the beach. A true film enthusiast, she loved storytelling and shared her vibrant sense of humor with everyone around her. Above all, her dedication to her family stood out. She was a devoted mother to her son Preston Hurthle and a loving wife to her husband, Bruce Stelzner.
Legacy of Love and Community Impact
Susanne is survived by her husband, Bruce; her son, Preston; and her stepchildren, Ryan and Nick Stelzner. She was also the daughter of Marion Rhoads and the late William S. Rhoads, who passed away in 1990. Additionally, she leaves behind siblings Carol (Randy) Harrison and Richard (Pam) Rhoads, as well as several nieces and nephews, including Lindsay (William) Dagiantis and Carter Harrison. Susanne’s late sister, Kimberly Hite, passed away in 2011.
Her family described her as a classy woman with a warm heart, always making others feel valued and welcomed. Susanne and Bruce enjoyed traveling, splitting their time between homes in Stuart, Florida, Tippecanoe, Indiana, and Lake Bluff, Illinois, while also exploring various destinations worldwide.
The community will gather to honor her life at a memorial service on February 28, 2026, at The Church of the Holy Spirit, located at 400 E. Westminster, Lake Forest, IL, 60045. The service will begin at 3 p.m., followed by a reception. Interment will be private.
In lieu of flowers, the family requests that memorial contributions be made to the American Breast Cancer Foundation. Those interested can find more information at www.wenbanfh.com or by calling (847) 234-0022.
While the loss of Susanne is deeply felt, her legacy of love, kindness, and grace will continue to resonate within her family and the wider community. She is now at peace, reunited with her father and sister in what her loved ones believe to be God’s Kingdom.
