It is with deep sorrow that the community of Everly mourns the passing of Gary Lee Scharnberg, who died peacefully on December 26, 2025, at the age of 82. Born on October 13, 1943, in Cherokee, Iowa, Gary’s life was marked by service, family, and a deep love for his rural community.
Gary was the son of Mildred (Millie) Struve Scharnberg and Robert (Bob) Scharnberg, who was stationed in Guam during World War II. His birth provided a connection between his parents, as they exchanged letters that documented his early development. The family eventually returned to the family farm near Everly, where Gary grew up participating in various sports and academics. He excelled in track, earning multiple accolades before graduating from Everly High School in 1962 and later from Buena Vista University in 1966, where he set records in the mile and half-mile events.
Following his graduation, Gary enlisted in the U.S. Air Force, dedicating 9.5 years to military service and attaining the rank of captain. His career, primarily in missile and aerospace defense, took him to various locations, including California, Colorado, Alaska, Vietnam, and Australia. It was in Australia that he met his future wife, Sheila Grist Scharnberg, who had immigrated from England. They married in 1975, and Gary shifted his focus from military service to family and farming.
The couple returned to Everly to assist Gary’s father and grandfather on the family farm. They faced tragedy with the loss of their first son, Robert, shortly after birth, but welcomed their son, Michael Geoffrey Scharnberg, in 1978. Gary contributed significantly to the community, serving on boards for the Co-Op Elevator, the United Farmers Telephone Company, and Evertek.
In 1998, Gary began working at Christian Sheet Metal, where he earned the affectionate nickname “Farmer.” He found joy in this work, fostering relationships with coworkers and the wider community. Following the passing of his father in 2008, Gary became the family patriarch, caring for Sheila, his mother, and his sister until their respective deaths.
Gary was known for his warmth and positivity, always ready to share a smile. He enjoyed nature documentaries, cooking shows, and spending time with family and friends. He is survived by Michael, his siblings Janet Carl-Scharnberg, Steven Scharnberg, and Charles (Chuck) Scharnberg, as well as numerous nieces, nephews, and dear friends.
Funeral services for Gary Lee Scharnberg will be held on January 7, 2026, at 10:30 a.m. at the Warner Chapel in Everly, officiated by John Jensen. Military honors will be provided by the American Legion Everett Boyles Jr. Post 414. Interment will follow at Lone Tree Cemetery in rural Everly. Arrangements are being made by the Warner Funeral Home of Everly, with more information available at their website.
Gary Lee Scharnberg leaves a legacy of love, service, and community spirit that will be remembered by all who knew him.
