A Methodist pastor in Rochester, New York, publicly announced plans to transition from male to female during a service on November 23, 2025. Rev. Phillip Phaneuf, of the North Chili United Methodist Church, shared this significant personal update while wearing a rainbow stole, signifying pride and support for the LGBTQ+ community.
During the sermon, Phaneuf expressed, “I’m affirming to all of you that I am transgender. The best way to put this is that I’m not becoming a woman; I’m giving up pretending to be a man.” This heartfelt declaration marks a pivotal moment in Phaneuf’s life, as the pastor also identified as asexual, meaning he experiences little or no sexual attraction to others.
Details of the Transition
Phaneuf revealed plans to change his name to Phillippa and confirmed the use of the pronouns she/her. He has already begun hormone replacement therapy, which he stated commenced three months prior to the announcement. Phaneuf anticipates changes in voice, hair, and overall appearance as part of this transition process.
The pastor reassured the congregation that support from church leadership is unwavering. He noted that the bishop was consulted regarding the transition and that his pastoral duties will not be affected by the change. “What will stay the same is my deepening love for all of you,” Phaneuf emphasized, aiming to maintain continuity in his role.
Family and Community Reactions
While many in the congregation expressed support, Phaneuf disclosed that his parents do not share the same sentiment. He stated during the sermon, “They asked me to tell you all that they do not support me.” This admission highlights the personal challenges faced by many individuals undergoing similar transitions.
The announcement comes at a time when the United Methodist Church has made strides toward inclusivity. In the past year, the church reversed previous policies that condemned LGBTQ+ identities. According to its official website, the United Methodist Church now affirms human sexuality “as a sacred gift” applicable to all individuals, regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity. The church commits to supporting LGBTQ+ persons within its communities, a shift that has fostered an environment of acceptance.
As Rev. Phaneuf embarks on this transformative journey, his announcement serves as a significant moment not only for himself but also for the wider community, reflecting a broader movement towards acceptance and understanding within religious spaces.
