Honoring Service: Lessons from Leaders on Gratitude and Purpose

Reflecting on the lives of influential figures such as former President George H.W. Bush and beloved television personality Fred Rogers, the concept of service emerges as a profound theme. This Veterans Day, as communities come together to honor those who have served, it is essential to explore the deeper meaning behind such acts of service and the purpose they embody.

During his time as a young Navy pilot in World War II, President Bush faced a pivotal moment when he was shot down over the Pacific Ocean near Chichi Jima. He was one of only three survivors, and the only one to be rescued. The USS Finback surfaced through treacherous waters to save him, an act he viewed as a significant turning point in his life. According to his longtime chief of staff, Jean Becker, President Bush often reflected on this event, asking, “Why me?” This question was not born from self-pity but rather from a place of gratitude and understanding that his life was spared for a purpose.

Bush’s realization that he was meant to serve others is echoed in the philosophy of Fred Rogers, widely known as Mister Rogers. Rogers once stated, “Love and success, always in that order — it’s that simple and that difficult.” A note found in his wallet after his passing contained the words, “Life is for service.” This sentiment aligns with the teachings he encountered during his time at Rollins College, where he graduated in 1951. The college’s enduring motto continues to inspire students to recognize their purpose in serving others.

The spirit of service exemplified by both leaders resonates strongly within the armed forces. Each generation of military personnel, from the beaches of Normandy to the mountains of Afghanistan, has chosen a path of service over self. The strength of the military lies not solely in its technology or equipment but in its people — the veterans and active-duty members whose sacrifice and courage exemplify the essence of service.

As Veterans Day approaches, it is crucial to remember that the day is not merely a commemoration of battles won but a reaffirmation of the promise to protect freedom and serve one another. This philosophy aligns with the values taught at Rollins College. The Harvard Study of Adult Development, the longest-running study on human happiness, indicates that a fulfilling life is rooted in two core elements: building strong relationships and discovering a purposeful existence. Rollins fosters a community that embodies these principles, encouraging students to engage in service and connection.

Veterans Day serves as a reminder that honoring our heroes involves more than parades and speeches. It requires a commitment to live lives of service, gratitude, and purpose. As we reflect on the examples set by leaders like Bush and Rogers, we can find our own answers to the question, “Why me?” through acts of compassion towards others.

As communities continue to celebrate this day, it is vital to instill in future generations the understanding that love is a strength, not a weakness. A meaningful life is defined not by personal achievements but by the care and support we extend to those around us. In the words of Robert “Navy Bob” Roncska, a retired U.S. Navy veteran and alumnus of Rollins College’s Crummer School of Business, embracing the ethos of service can lead us all to a richer, more fulfilling existence.